If you have decided that you want to win your ex back you are probably racking your brains right now trying to think of ideas, of plots, of scenarios. It is natural to try make things complex, to try come up with ‘cure all’ strategies.
But it shouldn’t be as difficult as that though, you have the knowledge on how to win your ex back right at the front of your brain, all you need to do is think.
Tap Into Your Knowledge
When you were with your ex you would have learnt a lot about him or her, you will have learned what makes them tick and, more importantly, what their likes and dislikes are. It is this information that you need to use to win your ex back.
Because you know what the like and dislike you automatically have the advantage over anyone else who may be interested in them. But you need to stop and think about what it is that they want, what it is that your ex is looking for – and how you can be that person.
You know, for instance, that they at least once found you attractive… and that they liked what it was that you brought to the relationship, so that is a good starting point. Consider what it is that has changed between the start of the relationship and now, and consider how that has affected things with regards what your ex is looking for in a partner.
Look at working out these issues before you try to meet your ex, make it so that you are ready to show him or her that you are exactly what it is that they are looking for, that the break up was a mistake. If you have it all together, the package that they want, then they will start to see just how important the relationship was, and that they want you back.