I lost love as I have done something wrong, how will I get it back? Sad to say that issue, or variations from it, has long been asked countless times by lots of people all through history. If you’re among those folks there are certain things that can be done to assist yourself regain that individual which you simply can’t seem to get over with or get out of the heart.
Your own approach will change according to your distinct situations but don’t forget that even though your ex is with another person, that nearly 90% of rebound relationships fail and in many instances the couple will just wind up ending it within 6 months or less.
That would give you certain hopes, along with a little space, as you figure things out. The very first thing you need to do is to understand all the things that you did wrong and why did you do it. Had you been lashing out on your ex simply because of what they said or did something that hurt your emotions? If that’s the case, you must learn how to grow up and hold your tongue the next time it happens. Look for good ways of working with these kinds of problems, you’ll find perfect ways and bad ways of going through things, find the proper one.
Have you ever been selfish or insensitive? This two are signs of immaturity, so when you really need to help make things work when you’re able to get back your ex, you should do something about it at some point. If you won’t improve your behavior, you may not change the outcome and you will be back saying I lost love because I did something stupid…again and again.
The best thing to try and do is always to say I’m sorry, truly and from the heart, and also explain the reason why you did such things and the things you plan to do for making some changes. More often than not just by having a ‘game plan’ which you can use in explaining to your ex to let them realize you’re serious about the changes that you’re trying to make, may go a long way to winning back the ex you have wronged. Be sure that you can present a certain plan or else it could simply look like lip service.
It will never work unless you convince your ex that you have made a real change and you’re 100% focused on getting yourself a much better person, and a better partner as well. If you’ll be able to prove to them that you’re serious, they will have a rather less difficult time of trusting you again. Bear in mind, that the ridiculous stuff you did prior to bring on your ex lots of pain, and they’ll think carefully before they will risk that sort of hurt again. They have to feel that you will not hurt them again, and simply saying it’s not going to work most likely.
Don’t create yourself, and other people, unnecessary pain by constantly practicing the same kind of dumb habits of behavior continuously. Rather avoid lots of pain and keep away saying these words again ‘I lost love because I did something stupid’.