That is an important question that you need to ask yourself… just how much do you want your ex back? Because it can be hard work, and you need to make sacrifices, so it is not a journey you should embark on due to a simple whim.
Love lost is painful, especially when you weren’t ready for the break, when you thought the relationship still had legs. But a lot of break ups happen for a reason, because the relationship wasn’t going to work. You need to decide if the pain that you are feeling is because you are losing the real thing, or just because you are upset about losing someone you care about.
Is it worth it?
Why would it not be worth it? Well you need to think about what you are going to be doing. You are going to need to address things about you that your ex didn’t like, and change it so that he or she can imagine spending their life with you.
You are going to have to set yourself up for disappointment. If you follow the right tactics then it is likely that you will win your ex back but it is not guaranteed, are you prepared to go through that pain again?
You will need to revisit the past, which after a break up can be painful. You will be addressing problems, behavior and attitude, all to try win your ex back. Are you sure that you want him or her that much?
The good news is that, if you decide it is worth all this then it is very possible to win your ex back. Thousands of people have done it and you can to, you just need to decide that you want to do it and take on the advice from those that have already been in your shoes.
If you think it is worth it then start preparing for it, you can start winning your ex back today.